Decoding and Detecting a Narcissist Handout: I want to give you homework, so you can learn to decode and detect narcissistic traits and behaviors. The best way to do this is to watch something on television. I want to see if you see what I see. This material is vital if you want to learn how to attract no longer or date another narcissistic person. It will also support you in being able to observe these behaviors in the world around you instead of being victimized or taking the behaviors personally. Print it out and use it as a reference guide when watching the shows or movies I suggested in the podcast – decoding and detecting a narcissist.